Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Signs of Affection

My husband thinks that feeling me up is a sign of affection. No matter how many times I have tried explaining to him that I need to be touched in a non-sexual way, he just doesn't get it. I try to show him how to cuddle but he thinks it's an invitation for sex. It's no secret I've been incredibly stressed out lately, so for several days I have been begging for a massage. My shoulders are so tight I can hardly move. He's always too tired. I told him last night that if he won't touch me then I'll pay someone else to. Today I'm going for a massage. It didn't seem to bother him. Maybe it will when he sees the bill.

5 comments:

Meghan said...

oohhhh...enjoy your massage. What a great present to yourself.

And men just don't get it. Last month when my boobs were huge and hurt from all the prometrium my husband actually said "it's like its my birthday!".... ummmm....nope, not at all like your birthday!

Unknown said...

Ooooooooo, I like that idea, make him pay for it. I would say go all out; oils, stones, heat, whatever else they do. I have learned to just sidle up to my husband, put his hand on my lower back and say "rub". I have also found that lying on the floor, squirming in agony and moaning "I'm dying!" can get his attention (and a massage)

HereWeGoAJen said...

My husband and I negotiate for backrubs. If he wants a sandwich at 10:00pm at night, I make it but he has to give me a backrub. It works out really well for both of us because we both get what we want.

Michele said...

Good for you. I had to say it but there aren't many husbands that could give as good of a massage as a well massage therapists so enjoy yourself. I'm sure it will help you get some much needed relaxation.

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